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2.15.2010

Eisenhower and Abraham--Happy President's Day

   It started innocently enough.  We had a salt and pepper schnauzer for 15 years while my children were growing up.  We loved Howard as a member of our family.  He was a loyal dog from the first day we got him as a six week old puppy.  Howard liked to be anywhere the family was.  He was tough as nails in endurance and soft as a cottonball in heart.  A couple of times the children even "camped out" in the backyard on the trampoline and Howard sat up the entire night keeping guard.  He never slept.  He would sleep the next day after the children were 'safe' again.  We named Howard after my grandfather that had died that year.  It was a perfect name for him.  When Howie died at 15 we were all devastated.  There was a hole in our hearts as well as our home.  By then, three of the children were off to college and the other two were soon to follow. I vowed I would never have another dog, so that I would not have to endure the grief when they died.  Forget all the joy that Howie had brought, I did NOT want to feel the sadness again. 
      Then about a year and a half later, on Mother's Day, the kids gave me Eisenhower.  He was a black and white schnauzer.  He was from the same breeder where we had bought Howard, so he was a distant relative of Howard.  He was enough like Howard to make me fall in love all over again, but enough different so that we were not replacing Howie.  AND, he melted my heart.  I had sworn I would not like another dog ...EVER....AGAIN.  Well, it took about five one minute for me to love the new black and white puppy.  Then came The Name.  Naming dogs after people can be kind of touchy.  Not everyone sees it as a compliment.  We went through our list of relatives that would also be cool dog names.  None of them seemed to fit.  Teddy, Tommy, Rufus, Roscoe, Joe John, none of them seemed to fit.  The poor puppy went unnamed for several days.
 
We knew we were leaving Kansas after living there for 17 years and heading back to Oklahoma. 


We tried to think of names that had to do with Kansas. Amelia (cute if he was a girl), Jayhawk (not hardly for this Sooner family), Hiawatha (too much).  Finally it hit us!!!!!!  EISENHOWER.... The favorite son of Kansas.  And, not only that, my grandfather (no, not Howard but my other grandfather), had been Eisenhower's campaign manager during Eisenhower's run for the presidency. It seemed a perfect name.
 We tried it out...Eisenhower....Eisenhower....It seemed to be perfect.  And like any great name, his nickname is even better.  Of course, it is Ike.  I like Ike.  I LOVE Ike.  Ike is a little sweetheart and completely spoiled. He is independent to a fault.  He is stubborn.  He waits on us to get home.  Literally.  Since the day we got him, he waits by the window or the door for us to get home. He seems to sense or know the time of day that we usually get home, and he is there waiting.  Always. We love Ike.

Enter Abraham.
Well, my children decided that "poor Ike" was lonely.  
So two years after getting Ike for Mother's Day, I got another puppy.  This time a solid black schnauzer. I could not have been more shocked when they walked in with him after church.  Ike could not have been more shocked!!!
It took Ike about five one minute for him to consider the new puppy his best friend.  Then, once again, what about the name.......????!!!!!  I had long said if I ever got another dog I would name a male dog Truman.  Ike and Truman.  Really, what could be more perfect.  AND, that same grandfather that was Eisenhower's campaign manager....well he was also a third cousin of Truman. As in Harry S.  ....As in President Harry S. Truman.  So it was decided (by me) that Ike and Truman would be the perfect duo.
My children though, had other ideas.  While they loved the name Truman, they kept focusing on the fact that the new black puppy was born on February 12th.  Which is, coincidentally, the birthday of Abraham Lincoln.  They thought for sure he should be Abraham.
And, they thought, just as Eisenhower was Ike, Abraham could be Abe.  Ike and Abe. Abe and Ike.  They go together.
Slowly, I decided that Ike and Abe, Abe and Ike sounded pretty cute.  Not only did the names sound cute,  but I think they are cute. They are best little buddies.  Whatever Ike does, Abe does.  Ike takes care of his buddy. My kids were right!!  Ike needed a friend for his long days home alone.  Now he has Abe.  And that is how I got two presidents at my house!
                                                       Happy President's Day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2.14.2010

But the greatest of these is LOVE....

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails....And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.(NIV)
1 Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13
There are no words that can be added to this beautiful, perfect passage.
Have a very special Valentines Day with the ones you love.

2.13.2010

LOVE Isn't In The Falling.......

It's in the staying there........
 Thirty one and a half years later.....he still knocks my socks off.  I once read a quote by the wife of Rev. Billy Graham.  She said, "IF two people in the marriage are exactly alike.....then one of them isn't needed!"
What great words of wisdom.  I think of that quote when I see the picture of our tootsies!  Hubby really isn't that white. It is just he NEVER goes around without his shoes and socks.  On the other hand, I HATE to wear shoes....and feel suffocated if I have to wear socks. (Obviously this is a summer picture too, and I am a sun girl.) I know, I know, I have heard all the lectures about the sun!!...............I still love the picture. (If one can like pictures of (oh my!) feet.
 
We were SO young when we got together. Oh my goodness the growing up we still had to do!  I watch some of the very young couples on TV----or in real life-----that are starting out and they expect IT ALL.  I just sit back and shake my head.  
Do they have ANY idea what it means to start with nothing
and work your butt off to get everything you need?
The entitlement bothers me.
It also makes me realize that some of my best memories are the 
struggles and hardknocks 
we endured.  
That brought us closer together.
It made us rely on each other.
It made us strong.
It made us love each other even more.
 

It's knowing that at the end of each day, we have each other to go home to.  Comfort. Security. Peace. LOVE.
 It's cuddling up in the evening on the couch. One with a remote (guess who!) one with a book and a computer. It's not only accepting the differences (thank you Mrs. Graham!) but enjoying those differences.




Because we know that we may be two different people....
 
But we are one soul
together.
Full of love 
for each other.
And 
the family
we created.
Together.


LOVE isn't in the falling...
It's in the staying there. 

2.11.2010

Valentines Day everyday...........

Of all the holidays, Valentine's Day is towards the bottom of my favorites list.  Perhaps by the middle of February I am tired of winter and ready for the freshness of spring. I also have the very sarcastic viewpoint that Valentine's Day has, in many ways, become purely a commercial holiday.  But mainly, I am disturbed by the fact that some people use Valentines Day to tell someone they love them, but then the other 364 days of the year the love goes to the back-burner.
  I love a relationship that says "I love you" at LEAST once a day. I love a relationship that ends each phone call with a loved one with "I love you". I love a relationship that gives a hug and a kiss when someone walks into a room. I love a relationship that reaches across the couch for a quick kiss. I love a relationship that shows random acts of kindness and love at any given time. I love a relationship that revolves around children and family and strong values.  Every day should be a day of love........

more love lists continued tomorrow................
  

2.10.2010

Simple LOVE

The older I get the more I learn to LOVE the simple things in life.......

Like.... Watching reruns of The Andy Griffith Show
Doris Day movies

Southern cooking
Sweet tea ...anytime
Hot chocolate on a winter day

Ferns on a big front porch
Galvanized buckets
An outdoor swing

Grilled meat
Grilled chicken
Grilled seafood

Fresh summer vegetables
Watermelon

Sugar cookies with almond flavoring
Brownies

A good book, no matter how many times I"ve read it!
Written letters...the old-fashioned kind...with an envelope and a stamp!

Long-haired poets--and their poetry
Short-haired politics---and their policies!

Old wood type blocks
Underwood typewriters

Letters my grandparents wrote to each other
Black and white photographs

Hiking the farm ....any season
Christmas tree hunting

Driving around looking at Christmas lights
The aisles of the grocery store when holiday baking season begins!

Spring Break
Summer

The smell of rain
The smell of freshly cut grass

Candles on the deck...
Blankets on the deck when it is nippy

Burning leaves
Suntan lotion

Happy dogs
Fluffy cats

And without even meaning to....when I reread the list I realized the simple things I love are also those that cost the least! That makes me love them even more...

more LOVE continued tomorrow..........

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